How Parental Reactions To Bratty Behavior Further Contribute To The Behavior Of A Child

Abstract

In Bapsi Sidhwa's novel "An American Brat," parental reactions play a pivotal role in shaping children's behavior, particularly concerning bratty conduct. Through the character of Feroza, a young Pakistani-American woman, the novel delves into the intricate interplay between cultural identity, family dynamics, and personal development. Feroza's parents' responses to her behavior vacillate between leniency and strictness, exacerbating rather than resolving her bratty tendencies. This inconsistency fosters instability and insecurity in Feroza, torn between her American upbringing's emphasis on individualism and self-expression and her Pakistani heritage's values of obedience and respect for authority. Consequently, Feroza resorts to bratty behavior to assert her independence and challenge societal norms. Importantly, her parents' reactions mirror their struggles with cultural adaptation and identity preservation as immigrants navigating American society. This study underscores the significance of consistent and empathetic parenting in shaping children's behavior. Rather than reacting impulsively or rigidly, parents should strive for understanding and address underlying motivations with patience and compassion, fostering open communication and mutual respect to help children navigate cultural complexities and develop into responsible individuals.