The Dichotomy Of Marriage: Incarceration And Emancipation In Manju Kapur’s The Immigrant

Abstract

Marriage, an institution that has been revered and celebrated across cultures and civilizations throughout the ages, represents a sacred bond between two souls, uniting them in love, commitment, and trust. This union is not only critical for society but is also the foundation of the family unit. From the early days of human civilization, marriage has been portrayed in literature and has played a significant role in organizing societies. However, the institution of marriage has evolved over time, reflecting changing attitudes towards relationships and societal expectations. As sociologist Anthony Giddens argues in The Transformation of Intimacy, traditional marriage served as a central organization for social life, providing a stable foundation for the rearing of children and the maintenance of social order. This is evident in cultural traditions such as the Indian practice of arranged marriages, which emphasizes stability and continuity over romantic love as a means of ensuring the continuation of family lineage and cultural heritage. The legal and financial bonds formed through marriage can also provide a sense of security and stability, particularly in times of economic or personal uncertainty. Much like the natural world, marriage is subject to the forces of gravity that pull us towards the ground, towards the inevitable difficulties and challenges that arise in any long-term relationship. In marriage, varying expectations between partners can lead to significant challenges as they may have different views on their roles, responsibilities, and the relationship's future. Such disparities often stem from individual backgrounds, values, and experiences. Through her renowned work, The Immigrant, Manju Kapur masterfully captures the imperfections and challenges that arise within familial relationships over time, under various circumstances. In particular, Kapur's depiction of Nina and her husband's strained relationship, as well as the events that led to Nina's lonely existence in a foreign land, sheds light on the impact of migration on personal and family life. Nina's bond with her mother was also affected by her marriage, and the growing animosity among her marriage pushed her towards extramarital affairs, mirroring her husband's infidelity parallelly. Nina's personal life is thrown into disarray, as she struggles to navigate the complexities of human relationships and cope with the fallout from her actions. This research paper will delve into the intricacies of these issues and explore the importance of strong family ties and Nina's journey towards healing and recovery. On one hand, how the of marriage-imposed restrictions, curtailing the personal freedom of Nina to all the way towards a profound sense of freedom.